Sally
Wraparound Presence
“Your wraparound presence is my shield.” Psalm 7:10 TPT
I learned that many of you reading my updates are walking through grief too. I’m so very sorry for those of you who have lost loved ones. My heart broke as you shared how many died because of Covid. You also shared of other losses—jobs, homes, marriages, friendships. Grief comes in many forms, but they all hurt! Any kind of loss we face is traumatic, and healing from that loss takes time. There is no expiration date on grief!
I find my grief often pops up because of a memory trigger. A sweet memory from the past comes to mind, and I miss Floyd all over again. I’m grateful for the memories. They are treasures that I savor. But they do expose what’s missing now, what I’ve lost.
I’ve never walked through this kind of grief before, so I don’t know how long it will last—but I have a feeling it will stay with me. I am also guessing it will be less intense as time goes on.
“The process of mourning is as unique to a person as a fingerprint.” I read this quote recently. I know it’s true. I have several friends who have lost their husbands, but each of our journeys are very different. And that’s okay. We can grieve and mourn in any way our heart needs. There’s no right or wrong way to grieve.
I’ve found myself praying for comfort, grace, and healing for each of you who are grieving. I know the Lord is mindful of your grief, and I pray for His “wraparound presence” to be with you each day.
“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit”(Psalm 34:18).
In many ways I “lost” Floyd many years ago when he first became sick – even though he passed away much more recently. I want to testify to the Lord’s goodness, comfort, care, and faithfulness over all that time. He has truly been my “wraparound presence.” I’m so grateful!
Lord, would You wrap Your presence around those who grieve today. Help them to be patient with all Your processes as You bring healing and comfort. In Jesus’ name, amen.