“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18

Grief Waves

A mini devotional

Having grieved for my gentle giant for over five years, I was caught off guard by the profoundness of the final grief. I have found that it comes in waves—often triggered by the smallest, simplest things. The waves wash over me with gentle, sweet memories reminding me of treasures from our 54 years.

At first, I didn’t want the waves to come because I would find myself crying a lot. It was rather draining. But every time the wave came, I’d stop and talk to the Lord as I cried. I began to see that each wave of grief was bringing healing. I realized I needed to flow with the wave rather than resisting it.

Someone said to me that “grief is our receipt of having loved well.” I like that! The reason I’m grieving is because I’ve lost something valuable. It changed my perspective. I could appreciate the grief rather than trying to stop it.

And the grieving process does indeed bring healing! If I bottle up my grief, I won’t receive the healing that my heart needs. I know it will take some time, but I’m embracing the grieving, healing process—and allowing the Lord to minister His grace into each wave that comes my way.

Lord, may all who grieve have sweet, gentle memories of their loved one. Give them strength to endure the process of grief. Be their peace, Lord. Amen.